killacross wrote: ↑Sat Jan 22, 2022 7:57 am
Digital Masta wrote: ↑Sat Jan 22, 2022 4:49 am
In general women's ability to pair bond decreases in proportion to the amount of dicks she has received. Meaning more likely to divorce you if she has seen a lot of dicks.
Men for whatever reason don't have this problem. We can sleep with 200 women and then on woman 201 be like,"GUYS, SHE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!" and never divorce her.
So for women there is a realistic number given this day and age and then there is the BEST number which is zero. But that ain't realistic these days so I would say anything over 3-5 is now a bit concerning. If she has only had 3 -5 boyfriends then okay.
Also her age. If she is 19 and has already slept with five guys, she is heading to ho territory.
...I disagree with that part. Men WANT to be able to do that...but it doesn't happen like that in reality.
3-5 with 3-5 boyfriends? I guess I've been out of the dating market so long...and I did marry a more traditional woman who wasn't American
Maybe I am wrong then
3-5 boyfriends meaning 3-5 men total. Meaning all the guys she has slept with have been her boyfriend.
Honestly, even then I would rather it be more like one or two but again I am hedging for what is more likely to happen in today's world.
And I agree that men sleeping with a lot of women is also bad for men but the reverse is far worse for women. Also, I should adjust my earlier example to point out that the man with 200 lays may still divorce but divorcing his wife isn't necessarily because of a lack of ability to pair bond or because of the other women he has had sex with. Whereas a woman carries a piece of every man she has slept with into the next relationship and as men we know it.
Hell, there are women I have hooked up with that afterwards I thought," Yeah, she is gonna remember me for the rest of her life" ESPECIALLY here because I may very well be the only foreigner and then the only black guy she had ever been with. She isn't telling her future Japanese husband about out encounters.
(Cue the you're a sexist pig comments)
We all know that a man with 200 lays and a woman with 200 lays isn't the same thing. The affect on their mental, physical and emotional well-being isn't the same. Their potential for long term relationships isn't the same. Even women can acknowledge that