There we go

[xandorxerxes]

It might be because most wealth in America is self-made wealth but Americans don't have the same walls that separate rich and "common" that Korea does. Despite what politicians and activist like to say, wealthy people (especially those that used to not be wealthy) will easily hobnob with people of a lower socioeconomic status. In Korea...nah.

Thanks for that breakdown! I really appreciate the explanation.

SPOILER

[SHOW]

I had caught a few snippets of things like the clueless wife, but I was really taken aback when Mr. Park told Mr. Kim to help at the party. I assumed it was rich person privilege he was trying to use (as it was the entire movie), so I didn't see them as 'bad,' just arrogant/snobbish until Mr. Park left Mr. Kim's daughter bleeding while he tried to rush his fainted son to the hospital. It's different to know that's expected behavior. I was also curious why Mr. Park didn't leave the house after a while - I assumed that the police would stop caring about someone like him after a few years, but if the rich can keep the pressure on them for a long time that would make sense. I guessed the son's dream at the end was essentially the movie saying he'll never accomplish it. Also there's NO WAY he survived that rock to his head, especially 3 times.

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I don't think I'd really pay to see the movie again, though I saw it for free, and I wouldn't call it a 'good' movie either, just... different. I'm also a pretty big cheapskate with my money and my praise for movies and food, so take that as you will.

Edit: Wow I really fucked up those tags. Hope it's pretty now.

[superbob]

If you go into a regular reply, not a quick reply, the spoiler button should be there, otherwise it's the pretty standard

["spoiler"]["/spoiler"]

without the ""

[San Goku]

DM peaked my interest now. I will try to watch it this weekend. I still have Knives Out on my laptop and didn't get around to it yet but I can leave that for another time.

[Digital Masta]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqskSeNORoE

Man, I blush a little just looking at Aerith...she's just so pretty.

[San Goku]

Man Parasite was a fucking great movie. Half way through the movie at the confrontation I laughed my ass off for a good 5 minutes. The movie definitely reserved the praise it got.

[Digital Masta]

I would also like to point out in Parasite...the rich mom and the sister both of them...HOT! That and the halfway point and the ending are also very "Korean movie". That kind of intense almost random situation.

[San Goku]

I would also like to point out in Parasite...the rich mom and the sister both of them...HOT! That and the halfway point and the ending are also very "Korean movie". That kind of intense almost random situation.

I actually did spot out some similarities with Japanese and Korean culture. Didn't know they were so similar. For some reason when I was watching this movie I thought I should start up my Mandarin lessons again. Cause I was watching a lot of Chinese drama shows back then.

Mom can definitely get it, even her daughter too...but the sister she can get all the D.

[killacross]

I started watching Parasite. DIdnt finish. Will probably finish tomorrow.

completely random...Feb 15 always makes me think of my highschool sweetheart. Fortunately...it's because I realize that I dodged a METRIC SHIT TON of crazy!!

[Digital Masta]

I started watching Parasite. DIdnt finish. Will probably finish tomorrow.

completely random...Feb 15 always makes me think of my highschool sweetheart. Fortunately...it's because I realize that I dodged a METRIC SHIT TON of crazy!!

Go on...

[killacross]

Go on...

A lot of random backstory here. I lived in a very small, very rural, very racist town in Western, NC.
She's white, I'm black. I knew her for a few years. I was madly in love with her...
We started dating senior year in high school (obviously) -- Dec 2002. A lot of people didn't like that (even more than I imagined is what I found out later).

I went to a college summer program in July 2003.
She broke up with me because she didn't want to do the long distance thing "It wouldn't be fair to us".
We got back together like 2 weeks later...and she traveled the 3 hrs to come see me.

College started end of August 2003. We went to schools that were 3 hrs apart. We would travel every other weekend...and would alternate who visited who. I had a dorm to myself (got my roommate expelled because I didnt like him and he would spark up in the room, halls, stairways, etc) and she had an apt.
She broke up with me again in September, but we still talked daily.
We got back together like a week later.
She broke up with me again in November, but we still talked daily. She said she went on a date with a guy but nothing happened -- not even a kiss [she actually called me before and after -- which I don't know why I was such a chump...but I fucking LOVED her].
We got back together -- I remember that I got her a promise ring that Christmas.
She broke up with me again on Feb 2, 2004. I told her -- I am tired of playing this game...I KNOW I want to be with her forever...not sure why she is unsure...but If we break up, I need a a week...maybe 2 of no contact.
I didn't talk to her for the first week. She called me but I didn't take the call the second week. She texted me on Feb 15 asking if we could talk? I said sure.

So we talked and talked...then she said she had to confess something. Between Feb 2 and Feb 14 (13 days)...she had sex with 17 different dudes. She realizes now they meant nothing to her...and I was right all along, we belonged together.

[GTFOH!]

I was like...WOW, well umm, I'm obviously done here.

She posted these dumb/cryptic away messages saying how she could never trust a man again..etc. so that the other "friends" would call or IM (this was when AOL Instant Messenger was big and before Facebook) and ask what I did to break HER heart? I always said, I didn't do anything wrong...we just weren't meant to be together. We broke up and I don't want to get back together (I NEVER put her business out there).

I would get random threats (fake emails and voicemails from payphones) because they told me to keep my nigger ass away from her, I better leave her alone or else, we warned her niggers ain't no good... etc etc etc.

That's when her crazy REALLY came out. She would drink and leave me these CRAZY fucking voicemails about how I wasn't shit..I never was shit...I'll never be shit...and if I was a real man then.... BUT she would also leave messages about how much she thinks about me and misses me...and check my email (she sent TONS of nudes). BUUUUT she would also send me pics of her with other dudes' penises in her mouth. BUUUUUUT she would also talk about I was the best and only good thing to ever happen in her life and she would do anything to have me back. BUUUUUUUUUUUUT she would also say that If I didn't take her back, she would kill herself and it would be all my fault. It was probably a 20/70/4/5/1% split.

Then she went back to our town and fucked most of my/our "friends" from high school.

Over the years (since 2004) she has regularly checked in with me 3-4x/yr. I have repeatedly blocked her number. But her number has changed over the years...mine has been the same since I got my first cell @ 15 (almost 20 yrs ago WOW).

Eventually I hit the point where I don't really care about her at all. I'm not in love, sad, OR angry anymore. I feel nothing...not even pity. She last contacted me October 2019. She was visiting her mom (she had her second bout with breast cancer) and said she was passing by some of the old hang outs from HS and started thinking of me...and wondered if I remembered banging her brains out here, here, and here -- and how much fun we had? (She's married now BTW -- which is another crazy/weird story in itself)

I honestly feel nothing towards her, but yea, Feb 15 is burned into my soul. Very formative experience.

the TL;DR:
#1 Once you go black...
#2 I stuck my dick in crazy

[Digital Masta]

Well...I'd like to know what her childhood was like because that kinda crazy doesn't pop up outta nowhere. I mean 17 guys in 2 weeks? That's gotta be a record for a non-porn star/prostitute. There is no person male or female that would look at that and go, "Oh, that's perfectly okay to do."


And is she married to a black dude?

[killacross]

She had a pretty charmed childhood.

The drama was that her dad decided he was just done with her mother...so they were just starting a really nasty divorce (4 kids...the oldest was 19/20 at the time..the youngest 11/12). He was some high powered exec at a food distribution corp (made about $400k/yr)...he mother was a substitute school teacher or teachers assistant in her spare time for years (made like $10k/yr).

But NO! No mercy for her. Be mad for meeeeee damnit.

She eventually married a white guy. Crazy story behind that as well.

She moved from NC to TN with him. Then she found out he was sexting one of his exes. She moved back to NC and stayed with her mom for a few months. Then she moved from NC to FL with the same guy . She was texting me periodically the whole time. I was angrier then. She would always ask when I would be back so we could talk and catch up and she could really use a hug and she just wanted to see me/smell me/feel me/hear my voice again (she wanted to fuck) because even when she called...I never answered, we only ever communicated via texts -- she would write paragrapsh...I would say Yes/No/OK.

Anyway...she moved to FL...and I remember one exchange very clearly. She was like. "I'm having doubts...I'm not sure the relationship will work out...Any plans to come to FL? Where do you live now...maybe I can come see you?" Obviously, I said No thx. She was like..."well, is there anyone special in your life now?" I said, I hope so...we've been married for 3 yrs.

The crazy started again. She would send texts at random hours in the night/morning -- just lying about how she had a so much fun and a really good time last night and she's still sore and hopefully we can do it again some time (...but my wife and I were together so obviously she was lying). Her guy called me one time and asked why IIIIIII keep texting his girl so much? I was like...I want nothing to do with this, please don't call again.

My wife was actually rational and was like...that bitch is crazy!! Blocking her number only worked until I got the random, new number text.

...I remember she texted me right after a Christmas (with a pic of the promise ring I gave her and said she kept it all these years and will always love me and always think back to the only time she was happy in life). Then a few days later, she sent a picture of her wedding bands and that she got married on NYE to that same guy.

That guy has really calmed her down AFAICT. Her texts stopped being as crazy and are now mostly the more mundane (so and so from HS died, my brother had their first child, my other brother is getting married, my sister is pregnant, mom has breast cancer, promotion at my job, etc). Within the last 1-2 years...she has started flirting again, but no nudes. I don't care enough to wish her feast or famine. She can go on with life...just wish she wouldn't involve me.

[Digital Masta]

Man, she's definitely got some shit from her past that drives this insane behavior. This is "seek help" levels of destructive behavior. Doesn't excuse any of it, mind you.


That or killa's drives ladies insane with the pipe. Except for his wife where it ain't enough to break latino family bonds.

[killacross]

...I'm surprised no one has said I over reacted yet. Most generally love to point out she technically didn't cheat on me because we were broken up at the time.

So while it may be labeled incorrectly... The gut punch definitely felt like cheating. I really wonder how people marry girls like that... I couldn't handle imagining every dude she's introduced you to from college/high-school has probably smashed

[Digital Masta]

...I'm surprised no one has said I over reacted yet. Most generally love to point out she technically didn't cheat on me because we were broken up at the time.

So while it may be labeled incorrectly... The gut punch definitely felt like cheating. I really wonder how people marry girls like that... I couldn't handle imagining every dude she's introduced you to from college/high-school has probably smashed

You're a lot kinder than you think you are. You put up with may more than I would. I'd told her to fuck off a long...LONG time ago.

[xandorxerxes]

...I'm surprised no one has said I over reacted yet. Most generally love to point out she technically didn't cheat on me because we were broken up at the time.

So while it may be labeled incorrectly... The gut punch definitely felt like cheating. I really wonder how people marry girls like that... I couldn't handle imagining every dude she's introduced you to from college/high-school has probably smashed

I entertained the thought for half a second, but if she really wanted it to work out she wouldn't have gone off the deep end. For whatever reason (I don't have any evidence to back this up) it just makes me think alcohol. I had a friend freshman year of college that drinking would end with her hooking up with different guys, but she never did hook-ups sober. Especially if your ex went to a big party school like App State (or at least it was at the time), could be other drugs too.

Total guess though.

[killacross]

School was in session. That's A LOT of drinking. Unless she did the whole gangbang/train thing at a porn shoot? Iunno -- and 16 yrs later...don't really care.

It did teach me something about life though. Forgiving someone has absolutely nothing to do with an apology. Even now...she's never hinted at an apology for hurting me the way she did. But because I've already forgiven her -- there's no anger or resentment left. But I think that is because I haven't seen here in 11+ years (I accidentally bumped into her when I was back in town when my grandma died in late 2008 -- she tried to give me a hug [as condolences] -- but I stopped her).

I ran into her mom once too at the grocery store (her mom really liked me) -- that was 2011/12)

....but enough about that girl.

My daughter is sick for the first time (has to be from the daycare) -- it is #1 disgusting how much snot she can generate and #2 heart wrenching listening to her struggling to breathe at night...we are constantly up to check on her and clean her nose. FUCKING EXHAUSTED.

[Colep924]

I’ve heard older woman are super horny, but goddamn this chica was a fire cracker. One of the best I’ve ever had.

[killacross]

Finished Parasite
...don't get it

[Digital Masta]

Finished Parasite
...don't get it

I enjoyed it. I thought it was good. I dunno about best picture but I liked it. But I also like Korean movies.

I’ve heard older woman are super horny, but goddamn this chica was a fire cracker. One of the best I’ve ever had.

My friend, remember this is a woman that is either single or cheating and unsatisfied with her relationship...either way she has years of sexual experience, less (stupid) drama issues because she's not some young 20-something year old who is concerned with stuff that we all learn is stupid and bullshit later in life and most importantly...PENT UP SEXUAL DESIRE. You combine all of that and you get the greatest sex EVER!

For example with me, I've always been more attracted to older Japanese women because the ones my age were always mentally like 14 year olds. That was back in my 20s. Now that I'm in my 30s it has gotten better because the women my age are now the age of the women I was messing with in my 20s but I still find myself really attracted to the late 30s, 40s+ Japanese women that are just looking FINE!

I've always said that if I didn't want a family a Japanese woman in her early to mid 40s would be perfect for me.

If you guys remember on my photography website I did the photos of that acquaintance of mine, the single mom with the two kids? I've come to the realization that I'm stupidly attracted to this woman (she'll be 38 this year), she cooks, takes care of her body, is a dance instructor and overall a nice person...gawd the things I would do to her, I've even thought to myself if she was single would I be willing to deal with having Japanese step kids that are 11 and 13 especially if she was like, "Yeah I'd have another kid". Too bad I also know her boyfriend. Her 10 years younger sister is also fine...but also has a bf.



Completely different topic but you know what always bothers me about Joe Rogan? He is the king of misinterpreting the views of previous guests he has on his show that he doesn't agree with. His recent episode with Melissa Chen (speaking of fine Asian women) and he brings up his disagreement with Ben Shapiro on gay marriage and his completely misinterprets Ben's viewpoint (disclosure, I like Ben...his foreign policy views are complete TRASH but anyway) because Rogan also clearly has a complete disdain for religion in general...as did Melissa Chen because they both kinda feed off each other in that segment.